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How to be a good father?

The "marital home" is a new life for both men and women, each assuming new responsibilities and abandoning much of the life of freedom that he 

once lived.

How to be a good father?

 Many think that men lose most of their freedom as before marriage, but the fact is that women are bound by many restrictions, from arranging the 

house, cleaning clothes, cooking food,

 pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding and raising children. While the husband can retrieve something from his departure with his friends, 

and then blame his wife if she showed a desire to go out to vent itself, or she asked him to help her to work the house does not end!

This is why there are differences in the house! This creates an atmosphere of hatred and distress among family members. Know,

 husband and father, that the key to the solution is in your hand. Yeah! You can bring joy and pleasure back to your home and create an atmosphere of love and familiarity 

so that your wife and children can hope to return from work to them! Just follow these tips and you will see the result, God willing:

1-Discuss your plans with your wife

Discuss your realistic plans and how to meet them as best as you can. Do not assume that you have the same expectations because they do not have the same culture!

 Ask your wife: "Tell me what things to do at home? If you take responsibility for cleaning the house, others will have the responsibility to clean themselves afterwards,


 such as putting laundry in the food basket, putting things in place after they are finished, disposing of garbage, and putting dishes in the house. dishwasher. 

You may say: What is my business - as a man - with these acts ?! Well, if you take care of young children all day long, 

you'll realize how difficult it is to complete all household tasks! Your wife really needs your help with cooking and cleaning!

2Be aware that housekeeping is not as simple as it seems

If you have never organized a house, shop for, clean, and clean your food,

 your results may not be as effective as any woman doing these tasks, but your wife will be very grateful to help.

3-Be friendly

Love and affection are the most important elements of a successful family. Remind your children and your spouse or other important people you love.
 If your children ask you to go out to the park or amusement park, leave room on your agenda for that. Make an effort to spend as much time as possible. If you do, you will be very loved by your family.

4-Take responsibility for the family

Make time to do some housewife work for your family! As you do this,



 it is your responsibility to make sure the house is clean and the repairs and maintenance are complete.



 One of the greatest advantages of this role is that you can now take the time to do the necessary repairs or maintenance items that were deferred because of your preoccupation with your business.

5-take care of your appearance

Try to spend some time every day to make yourself look good and well maintained. There is no reason to keep you from looking good, 

even if you do not have plans to leave home that day. Moreover, your wife likes to see you as stylish as you like to see her elegant.

6-Do does not forget to cook

Help your wife prepare food for the day of the week. At least you will appreciate the huge amount of kitchen tasks your wife does every day. another thing! 

You can identify the quantities and types that the family needs to eat, so do not buy too many amounts that are ultimately garbage.

7-Care for small details

You may think that celebrating something or success or a holiday is small. Okay! It is small, but your interest in it within your family will make you very loved among them.

8-Remember personal things that appeal to your loved ones

individually

If you remember setting up favourite foods for your children or your wife's surprise with fine flowers or ornaments, 



you'll create wonderful memories. Keep track of things that are of interest to your wife and children in person, and choose the right time to surprise them.

9-Organize your time

It's easy to do several tasks per day, but keeping appointments is difficult! You can accomplish several tasks simultaneously;



 so as not to overwhelm another task and cause a delay! For example, 



you can leave your car for repair and then go to the nearby market to buy household items and return to start preparing dinner, and then attend your car while cooking!

 So keep the dinner, rather than wait until midnight if you wait by your car while it's fixed!

10-Be happy

Try not to get angry quickly, especially at home! Carry the slip of your wife and your children to be loved by them;



 it is difficult to remain family members love their father is always nervous and screaming and beating! And showed respect. When the child does a good job (for example, getting a final grade in 



the classroom test, learning to ride a bike, etc.), tell him how happy and proud you are! Recognize your family's contributions, however small they may be.